But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
Jesus' Teachings
The Prodigal Son
Is God more like a strict judge or a father who runs to meet you? Jesus answers with a story
Introduction
Is God more like a strict judge waiting to catch you failing, or a father running down the road to meet you? Jesus was being criticized for eating with 'sinners' when he told this story, and it's his most direct answer to what God is actually like toward people who have wandered.
A younger son demands his inheritance early — the ancient equivalent of telling his father he wished he were already dead — and squanders it completely. Starving and desperate, he heads home rehearsing an apology, expecting at best to be hired as a servant.
His father sees him from a distance and runs. Not toward reproach — toward reunion. Everything Jesus wanted to say about grace is compressed into that single detail: the father was already watching, already ready to run.
Scripture
For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.
Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine. It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again.
Translation note: Scripture quotations are from the King James Version (KJV). The King James Version is in the public domain.
Key insights
- The father runs — undignified, on purpose, to reach his son
- The rehearsed apology never finishes before he's embraced
- The older brother's resentment is the story's real ending
- Both sons misjudged their father — one by fear, one by pride
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